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For countless people and for countless years, Bilquis Bano Edhi had been a mother, especially for the orphans at the Edhi Foundation orphanage that she established with her late husband, the humanitarian and philanthropist Abdul Sattar Edhi. On April 15, 2022, all these people and many more who worked or were supported by the Edhi Foundation, lost that mother, whom they all called ‘Bari Amma’. Courtesy: Edhi.org At 74, Bilquis Edhi passed away at a hospital in Karachi, five years after her husband, whom she worked alongside to provide all…

Bilqees Edhi was a mother countless children looked up to as their own. I met this dynamic lady at her orphanage in 2008, and talked to her about motherhood, the motherless and her own mother. Here is my report of the visit and my impressions of this selfless woman and the beautiful children who got a second lease on life thanks to her.

Thank you for the music, ABBA! By the time I discovered and fell in love with ABBA and their music, they had already split up. But, thankfully, they had belted out so many memorable pop songs by then that it kept me dancing on their tunes all through adolescent and teens. Now after almost 40 years, the Swedish pop band have reunited for one last time, releasing their 9th studio album — Voyage — “and they plan to unveil digital avatars — dubbed ‘ABBAtars’ — at a concert in London in May,…

Bas, bohat hogaya! This has to stop now, and it can only stop when swift punishment of the highest degree is given to these monsters who treat their women as trash and crush them ruthlessly. And each time it happens, many people are more interested in knowing what the woman did to drive the man to this brutality and then there are also justifications of the guy being a drug addict, or mentally unstable or a ‘girat-mand’ who was driven to it by a twisted sense of honour. NO WOMAN…

On this Mother’s Day, let us turn our focus to ourselves, and honestly see what kinds of kids we are for our mothers, and if we are what she deserves. And if we have an honest look at our behaviour towards our mother, and parents in general, we will realise so many things that we are doing right, and which we should continue with, but we will also find some things in our behaviour that can be improved.
It’s like, let’s not ask what mothers do for us, but what we can do for mothers. And this, my friends, will be the best Mother’s Day gift for her.

It is hard to believe that anyone can recall 2020 fondly. I won’t have believed it too, but here I am thinking back to how good it was last year in Ramazan. Really weird, isn’t it? Well, the reason I am nostalgic about Ramazan 2020 is because it was the first time in my adult life that I didn’t have to get up again after Sehri and go somewhere, spend part of the day out and come back exhausted in time for a short nap before Iftar. Despite the fear…